Domestic Abuse

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Domestic Abuse

It can happen in any family or relationship and it might not always be obvious it is happening.

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Domestic abuse can be

  • Physical – for example, kicking, hitting, pushing, making another adult do something that they don’t want to do.
  • Emotional – frightening the other adult to make them feel bad.
  • Financial – this could be taking away or controlling the other adult’s money, or not let them go to work.

Everyone has the right to be and feel safe. 



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When can it happen?

It can happen when people live together or in different houses. Although domestic abuse happens between adults, children can be affected in lots of ways by the abuse that they see. You might feel frightened, scared and very upset by what you experience and can also be hurt or bullied as part of domestic abuse.

Remember it’s not your fault, you are not alone. It is very important that you talk to someone if you are experiencing this, there are people that can help you. This could be a neighbour, a friend or a teacher.

In an emergency, for example if there is a fight, you can always call 999 and ask for the police.



Domestic Abuse Resources for Under 13s

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Women's Aid and Refuge

Women’s Aid and Refuge

These two key charities work together to provide the 24 hour National Domestic Violence Helpline 0808 2000 247. Both charities provide refuge accommodation throughout the country for women and children who may need to flee their homes due to domestic abuse.
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Samaritans

Telephone 116 123
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Night OWLS

Confidential support line for children, young people, and parents/ carers. Available 8pm–8am every day. Freephone 0800 1488 244 Text: 07984 392700
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Childline

Get help and advice about a wide range of issues, call us on 0800 1111, talk to a counsellor online, send Childline an email or post on the message boards.
Compass Wakefield

Compass Wakefield

Helps children, young people and families facing low mood, friendship problems, bullying, online bullying or feeling angry, lonely or sad before things get worse. Text BUZZ to 85258 for text messaging support, call 01924 665 093 or send off a referral form